A lesson

A broke up with me, and I always liked sharing my stories with my close friends. And it's very natural that they would like to protect me and give me opinions. S, my very good friend, doesn't like A, and believes that I should leave him. But I tried really hard to be together with A and we are back together now. S, and her bf, M both think I'm stupid to get back to A.
The worst part is I told A how S and M think, and they are all friends (or at least I hope they still are). I didn't think that much when I told A about this, and surprisingly, A sent S a msg to tell her that he knew what she thought of our relationship. S was furious at me, coz she thinks I violated the rule b/w two close friends. I really didn't think that's a big deal, and I always believe people should be brave enough to confront what they said and did. But I'm not lucky enough to meet such strong and responsible people. Both S and M tried to accuse me.

Eventually, I realized that I was wrong because I shouldn't have passed second-hand information, esp. negative comments. Also, I shouldn't have expected other people behave as what I think is proper, which is actually my very old problem. It's wrong to expect things should work as I believe. I probably made three other people unhappy.

So much to learn in life. I'd better get hurry up.